Imagine being in a room with a dozen other
people, each of whom has a different level of visual acuity.
Everyone in the room is asked to remove his or her eyeglasses
or contact lenses and exchange them with someone else.
Suddenly the world becomes a blur. What was once clear is now
distorted. You feel awkward and uncomfortable, maybe even
dizzy and nauseous.
The speaker now projects a slide onto the
screen in the front of the room and asks you to describe what
you see. You squint. You look over, under and around the
lenses. You think that you see an image. It looks like a photo
with a few words underneath. But you have no idea what the
words are – or if they are really words at all. (Unfortunately
for us aging baby boomers, this situation is too real and
happens more and more!)
We each have six attitudes. These attitudes,
or values clusters, are really nothing more than the lenses
through which we view the world. We see and understand very
clearly a few, usually two, of these attitudes. These two
attitudes we have learned to value more than others through
our unique life’s experiences. Two of the other attitudes we
may actually judge negatively depending on our experiences (or
the lack of positive ones).
What are the six
attitudes?
Theoretical - An
appreciation for learning, knowledge,
truth.
Utilitarian - A desire for
wealth and expecting returns on all investments of time,
energy and money.
Aesthetic - An
appreciation for form, harmony, beauty,
environment.
Social - A desire to
help other, avoid conflicts; willing to sacrifice own needs
for the good of others.
Individualistic - Emphasis on being all you can be, winning,
being in control of your own
destiny.
Traditional - Live and
willing to die for a system for living, many times religious
or political.
How can you use these attitudes to motivate
others?
The fact is each person is different in the
way he or she becomes and sustains being motivated. By
learning first to recognize what motivates you, you have the
opportunity to fuel those positive motivators and avoid or
subdue the negative ones. Just as importantly you can now
begin to understand what makes other people feel good, begin
to build endorsement and learn to “motivate” them by helping
them to meet their needs. Only after you understand the six
hidden motivators of people, can you now begin to understand
what motivates others.
To learn more, read Labor Storm Alert/September
2002 or order Exploring Values: The Power of Attitudes
by Judy Suiter.